Why do we celebrate pride?

Before Stonewall, "Reminder Day Pickets" took place in order to regain the rights to work for the government. Many LGBTQ+ people were fired due to their sexual orientation so silent protests were held every year in hopes to gain this right back. With oppression still continuing, a riot eventually broke out at the Stonewall Inn on June 28th, 1969. Protesting and riots continued for 6 more days. This served as a catalyst for the Gay Rights Movement. Yearly marches were then held to commemorate stonewall. Watch this video to learn more about the events leading up to Stonewall.

What does pride mean?

The word “pride” can be broken down into two different facets: Authentic and hubristic. Hubristic pride is defined as having an excessively high opinion of oneself with egoistic and arrogant characteristics. This type of pride is unhealthy because it is associated with aggression and relationship dissatisfaction. Authentic pride includes satisfaction taken in an achievement, possession, or association. This type of pride is the more common understanding in reference to pride month. Pride month is a commemoration of Stonewall and the progress of LGBTQ+ individuals. This is authentic pride because it involves a satisfaction of achievement and association to a larger group - and this is something to celebrate! For example; Someone may say “I am proud to be part of a community who values and respects who I am.” This is what pride month is all about - a celebration of authenticity, diversity, and togetherness.

Why is having pride important?

Authentic pride (in moderation) is very important. This type of pride can be healthy because it can encourage us to succeed and promote prosocial behaviors. In terms of mental health, pride can have many benefits including high self esteem, self worth, confidence, and sense of accomplishment. However, moderation is the key. One quote based off of Aristotle explains this:

“Too little is failing to acknowledge what has been achieved—a form of false humility—and too much is vanity.”